Courage to Continue
September 11, 2018
On this day, 17 years ago, I stood on the curb at LaGuardia Airport on my way to an important client meeting on the 99th floor of the World Trade Towers. I saw the unimaginable --- smoke billowing from one of the Towers. I want to dedicate this Blog on Courage to all the heroes of that day – all the First Responders, the strangers who acted to save others, the people who tragically lost their lives, and to all the family members and friends who lost loved ones.
Today, I am writing about every day courage – the courage to continue. Winston Churchill famously said:
“Success is not final,
failure is not fatal:
it is the courage to continue that counts”
What does courage look like to you in everyday life? How do you define courage?
Initially, when I thought about writing on courage – I said to myself: “Who are you to write on such a deep and profound topic?” I immediately saw the vestige of “I am not good enough.” And, I overcame my doubts. Of course, I am not a hero, I am not famous for research on or for any act of courage. However, I have lived and lost --- and I have faced my fears. I have moved forward.1 So here goes.
At its core, courage is facing and triumphing over your fears, simply by taking action – any action. It may be fear of the unknown; fear of failure; fear of being hurt, either mentally or emotionally; fear of loss; fear of missing something or someone; fear of not being good enough; fear of surgery; fear of illness, such as cancer or dementia; fear of the death of a loved one; or fear of your own death.
So, I ask you: What does courage actually look like to you when:
One of my favorite answers is: I don’t know the answer, and I do KNOW this: I can and will figure it out! Facing your doubts and your fears with confidence, trusting in yourself and taking action, IS an act of courage.
In my High Performance Coaching™ practice, the session on courage is my favorite session. I love how our coaching framework takes a very deep topic such as Courage and helps create simple quick wins to assist clients in gaining confidence, increasing decisiveness, and taking action. The approach is both strategic and tactical, at the same time. Without going into detail on the questions we ask or the Courage Checklist we provide clients, let me share with you a quick and practical high performance exercise 2:
A key part of the lessons in courage is to face our challenges and take action – sooner rather than later.
I see myself as a coach who both challenges you and cheers you on. So, ask yourself 2:
By way of background, in Certified High Performance Coaching™, the six habits of high performers are: seek clarity; generate energy; raise necessity; increase productivity; develop influence; and demonstrate courage. If you would like to learn more about how we define high performance and what if feels like, please click on: www.alisonlanzafalls.com/p/improve-your-performance.
Selected Meditations on Courage
Remember our brief discussion of the science of neuroplasticity – how neurons that fire together, wire together? We can change our brain! That is exactly why a daily gratitude practice, affirmations and meditation can be so effective.
I have reviewed a large selection of meditations on courage available on Insight Timer, a free app you can download to your phone or computer. I have selected these two. I am drawn to the first meditation because it is relatively short, only six minutes, and because I AM affirmations, personally, have proven to be a very positive and experiential way to rewire my mental attitude. The second meditation is a little longer and goes deeper into accepting challenges, letting go, welcoming change and includes positive affirmations.
If you prefer to read and would like ideas for positive affirmations, I highly recommend: “Inner Wisdom: Classic Meditations for the Heart and Soul” by Louise L. Hay.
Inspirational Quotes on Courage
Because I believe words are important and because we “hear” words through different filters of where we are in this moment, I did some research on famous quotes on courage.
In closing, I offer my top 5 inspirational quotes on courage.
That last quote gives me goosebumps – and motivation to step up to the challenge and speak my truth, with love.
I would love to hear your favorite quotes on courage. Or even better: What is your personal declaration on Courage?
Till next time,
May you be happy now and always, Alison
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